Men deadly dating patterns
These default strategies can often kick in without us even knowing it — from the moment those first crushy feelings arise and take hold until the relationship inevitably crashes and burns and sometimes beyond, making it difficult to get over a guy and move on with your dating life.Ironically, the very behaviors you engage in to get into a healthy, loving, committed relationship do just the opposite, leaving you in tremendous pain and feeling like you're destined to be alone forever.But to break from this pattern I have got to make sure I wear make-up to class and try not to dress like I’m ready to join a pick-up soccer game. (more on those later this week) and “self-sabotaging” ways.
The Hermit For whatever reason, The Hermit has convinced herself she's better off alone.
Kirschner even suggests using a love mentor (someone good at playing devil's advocate while consistently boosting your confidence and making you feel good) as an important step to her 90 day program.
But Kirschner says the most important aspect of working her program is to break the most common and most "deadly" dating habits.
If you can break these deadly dating patterns, you might have a shot at that love thing after all.
I have reached a point in the book where it assists you on how to break free of those patterns.