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But on the other side of the coin, it makes me sad that I even need to hide or worry about these things." "I have avoided telling my queer friends that I am in a relationship with a man.It's like coming out all over again and I've experienced resistance against it.I know nothing is that simple, but it's kind of Frostian: Two roads diverged in a yellow wood — except the woods are full of various genitals." "I actually came out as bi only a few months ago, and last month married a man. On paper, I'm straight (I'm in a long-term relationship with a man) but I'm attracted to both men and women. I tried explaining this, but I was called 'selfish,' 'confused' and 'doing it for attention.' The worst part is that this person was a friend, and he laughed my words away, as though sexuality were set. I asked him if he liked tits, he said yes, and then I said, ' Well, so do I!

But for me, it was an amazing experience of feeling like he was finally seeing a more complete picture of who I am. Even living in San Francisco, the assumption people make about me is that I'm straight." "I am a bi woman currently dating a bi man.

It feels like you are mistrusted, that people think you have actively chosen to take the route of most privilege without considering the ways in which you are now held at the margins by the community you most identify with.

I am new to this relationship and still trying to navigate how to move through both worlds.

Lesbians often do not think that I am gay enough or that I am pretending, or see my current relationship as me hiding my true self to blend in. I think, based on our conversations together, that he gets remarks like these more often than I do.

Our sexuality as a couple, too, has been made into a fetish by straight folks thinking that our relationship is a gateway to their forays with threesomes." "I reference ex-girlfriends in conversation when relevant, which is one way to address [invisibility] I guess.

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