Dating a stupid girl
She may start to obsess over why he hasn’t said it and what it means.
While she’s trapped in her head, she’ll ignore all the amazing things he does for her, the things that should show her beyond a shadow of a doubt that he loves her! This doesn’t mean they’re incapable of feeling love, – it just means they often have a hard time saying it out loud.
This is hard for most women to understand because women can switch from one task to the next and back again with much more ease.
We get a lot of questions that go something like: “I’m really confused, my boyfriend says he’s crazy about me and I’m the most amazing/wonderful/smart/funny/etc girl he’s ever dated but he always blows me off and he can’t hang out and doesn’t have time to talk on the phone or text back or take me out on dates and I really only see him late at night when he feels like it.” OK, maybe not exactly like that, but close enough.
If you want to know where he really stands, pay closer attention to what he’s doing and put less emphasis on what he is and isn’t saying. If you want him to give you what you want, tell him what it is that you want!
The trick is to do it in a way that’s encouraging, not one that’s threatening, demanding, or nagging.
The really sad/funny thing is that men have NO idea how intensely their texting habits are being scrutinized. There are all kinds of reasons why this is such an issue for women and why men are so oblivious to it – reasons we’ve discussed at length in previous articles– but the takeaway is that this whole thing is a non-issue for men. Yeah, they’ll text a lot in the beginning when they’re trying to win you over, but it’s not sustainable or realistic to continue at that level indefinitely.
Some men exploit this by saying things they don’t really feel or believe in order to get what they want, and other men hold back from expressing how they truly feel, knowing that once the words are out there the dynamic of the relationship will irrevocably be altered.(Source) If a man is at work, then that is the sole center of his world and nothing exists outside of that.The fact that a man doesn’t text you as much or as often as you’d like doesn’t mean he doesn’t care about you – he’s usually just focusing on something else and most men have a difficult time seeing beyond a given task at hand.You might be thinking: “But I always tell him what I want and he still doesn’t do it!I tell him all the time to bring me flowers and call me more and take me out and nothing changes!